for many years i have met many girls and women who live in abusive relationships, somehow get through them and leave these pathetic excuses for men, only to return to them once again. its a rather sad part of my life that doesn't even involve me directly. for all the ones i've met i have yet to overstand how these people can live a life in this matter, especially when children are involved. but, i guess we all operate on separate wavelengths. i have known (and still know) a lot of females in my life that live this lifestyle for whatever brainwashed reason. and no matter what i tell some of them, they are always under the impression that "people change" or that it was a one time incident (which usually becomes a repeat case). this weekend i met this girl who told me a horrible story of her abuse being beat into ICU including a fractured skull to which she now has metal plates in her hed (and showed me the scars). immediately this image of other friends and women came into mind and so i decided to put it to paper. fortunately this girl doesn't deal with this monster anymore and didn't repeat this, but it still provoked an image in me.
it frustrates me beyond belief that this happens, especially to those i know personally but there's only so much you can do for someone. if they aren't willing to change for themselves, they certainly won't change for you, regardless of how much logic or emotion you send to them...
i can't even continue with this nonsense.
stay creative,
Bluzilla One
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